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The Nightstand - what I'm reading

I'm the person with at least five books on the nightstand and one on audio in the queue. What I pick up depends entirely on my mood (and what I'm needing) — and it only takes reading a few sentences back to catch the thread, or rewinding a minute to find where the author was headed.


Audio — Waiting for John Berendt, Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil

Book 1 — Terry Tempest Williams, The Glorians

Books 2 & 3 — Martha Wells, Network Effect & System Collapse

Book 4 — Mary Oliver, Devotions

In the Margins - what I'm avoiding

Our new home has lovely tall windows.  And they need drapes.

I have a design and textiles background so, of course, they can't be just any drapes. 


My aesthetics and budget are constantly at odds.

The windows are still bare.

On My Mind - what I'm wondering

I'm always working on my own shit, and relationships/situations provide the fodder. The other day I was thinking about a relationship that's been getting a lot better, and this dropped in: why didn't I just give them what they needed from the beginning? 

The honest answer — I hadn't yet given it to myself.


Now I'm wondering... what if giving through my resistance is itself a path to giving something to myself? Resistance has been a trail marker for me — this way — but I hadn't considered resistance to be the path itself.

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